That Makes Me MAD! How to Tackle Mommy Anger Triggers - Vibrant Christian Living

That Makes Me MAD! How to Tackle Mommy Anger Triggers

A few years ago I noticed that I was angry. A LOT.

Can you relate?

I felt trapped, stuck and tired of my angry self.

My kids, my family, my life as a homeschool momthese things were supposed to bring me joy, right?!

But instead they just made me SO ANGRY sometimes!! And I had no idea what to do about that.

Our kids, our family, our life as mom--these things are supposed to bring us joy, right?! But instead they make us SO ANGRY sometimes!! What in the world can we do about that?

Through much prayer and trial and error, God has grown me immensely since that time.

And now, I want to share with you what he's taught me about anger–specifically about dealing with anger triggers.

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3 Steps to Tackling Mommy Anger Triggers

1) Discover what makes you mad.

We need to give ourselves permission to identify and accept what we're angry about.

We need to understand that what we're feeling is real, and lay it all out on the table.

When I identified my key anger triggers, my answers weren't surprising (and I'm guessing you can relate to more than a few of these?!) but, nevertheless, it felt GREAT to have them written down on paper:

  • ungrateful hearts
  • whining and complaining
  • lack of obedience and willful defiance
  • fighting amongst my children

2) Accept these two facts about mommy anger.

I noticed two very important things about my biggest mom triggers (and, friend, you've got to notice them too because they are the lynchpin here!). Ready?

  • I wasn't in control of whether or not the triggers would come; and

  • I wasn't in control of whether or not they were going to change (and my being angry about them certainly wasn't helping them to change).

However, my transformation in dealing with mom anger started by accepting this thought:

I can't control whether or not the triggers come, but I can control my response to the triggers.

When I realized that I was in control of (and responsible for) my responses, I finally saw the light at the end of the tunnel–and was ready for help!

3) Get long term help.

Dealing with anger is a process. It requires that we not only learn about anger triggers but other things, such as:

  • how to turn up the calm 
  • how to deal with in-the-moment anger when it strikes
  • what to do when we yell at our kids and mess up 
  • how to turn anger moments into teachable moments

We have to not only learn these strategies, but develop plans that are customized to our personal family issues and our own anger triggers. Can I share with you what's working for me (and many other moms) and help you through this process?

“It's Time to Take Control of Mommy Anger” (VIDEO)

It takes time, a plan and an encouraging community to deal with mommy anger.

I want to help you find a way out–more than just tips in a blog post.LARGE-7DLAM-logo-image

You're personally invited to join us in the “7 Days to a Less Angry Mom™” course.


Learn more about your anger triggers and find REAL FREEDOM from mommy anger.

You can find out more about this life-changing, biblically-based course here.

I understand what you're going through, and I want to walk this road with you to healing!

Learn more about the “7 Days to a Less Angry Mom™” course!


With hope and excitement for YOU,

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About Alicia Michelle

As a Bible teacher, author and professional Christian life coach, Alicia Michelle empowers women to cultivate a closer walk with Christ through her Connected Bible Community, and other 5Rs Bible Study™ resources; and to find life balance and overcome negative thought patterns through her signature coaching programs (Reset Life Balance Group Coaching; The Mindset Makeover).  As host of the Vibrant Christian Living Podcast, she inspires thousands of women each week with practical tips and powerful inspiration on how they can create the life of their dreams and live out God’s best plan for their lives. Alicia is also the creator of the Spiritual Growth Rhythm,™ a simple way for anyone to apply biblical truth and connect with God in less than 10 minutes a day.  Alicia is a wife to her best friend and husband of 19 years, and a mom of four very vibrant children (ages 17 to 8).  Follow her on Instagram at @vibrantchristianliving and learn more about the Connected Bible Community and group coaching programs at

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